My house is fully paid off and I am completely debt free with a 800+ FICO but not a great income level. My house should appraise around $200K and moving across country in hopes to buy one for $250K or even less.
I just can't wrap my head around the financing part.
So I will not get the money for my house I am selling til I move out and they take possession?
Want to have a house bought before I am homeless from the sale of my house.
I do not get the funds from selling my house until the new owners take possession, right?
I assume a bridge loan will not cover the whole purchase price of my new house but instead X% of the homes value. So where does the other $50K, or so, come from? (Mortgage loan?) Then how do I wrap the 2 loans together?
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Am I missing something really simple here? Am I overthinking a simple situation?

Hello, my name is Florian - I'm 22 and from Germany. I just woke up, it's five in the morning and too early. I'm about to head to work and i'm listening to music - some company would be very nice. Here are some things about me:
I recently graduated from University and organized myself a new apartment that I'll move to in two months or so. Give or take. I've started to work and am pretty content with my job.
My biggest passion is photography, maybe that shined through a bit in the first part. I've gotten a lot more into it, lately, and would say that I've shot some pretty good ones! Maybe you'd like to swap some, I mostly shoot scenery, but I'd love to see what you shoot :) Be it professionally, or snapshots for fun! I also enjoy to travel and explore places - I love going to New cities and walking around them with good music on my ears. I pretty much always listen to music (or the radio!), I always have some headphones with me. And I have a mess of a playlist, haha.
I also enjoy reading and writing, as well as learning about history, aviation, urban planning, politics and other topics. Tea is my favourite drink and I'd love to have one together with you, even if it's just virtual. If you prefer coffee or something else that's fine, too, of course. Lastly I have gotten into cooking and baking. I'm sure there's more about myself, but you'll have to discover that. I'm looking forward to getting to know you :)

Hello, my name is Florian - I'm 22 and from Germany. I just woke up, it's five in the morning and too early. I'm about to head to work and i'm listening to music - some company would be very nice. Here are some things about me:
I recently graduated from University and organized myself a new apartment that I'll move to in two months or so. Give or take. I've started to work and am pretty content with my job.
My biggest passion is photography, maybe that shined through a bit in the first part. I've gotten a lot more into it, lately, and would say that I've shot some pretty good ones! Maybe you'd like to swap some, I mostly shoot scenery, but I'd love to see what you shoot :) Be it professionally, or snapshots for fun! I also enjoy to travel and explore places - I love going to New cities and walking around them with good music on my ears. I pretty much always listen to music (or the radio!), I always have some headphones with me. And I have a mess of a playlist, haha.
I also enjoy reading and writing, as well as learning about history, aviation, urban planning, politics and other topics. Tea is my favourite drink and I'd love to have one together with you, even if it's just virtual. If you prefer coffee or something else that's fine, too, of course. Lastly I have gotten into cooking and baking. I'm sure there's more about myself, but you'll have to discover that. I'm looking forward to getting to know you :)

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The Beach Bob Resort is a PVE cluster focused around beginners! The cluster features a lot of both beginners and more advanced players who are all friendly and very helpful when it comes to learning more about the game. The servers feature multiple custom implemented plugins/mods to enrich the vanilla gameplay and make it more easygoing without losing the challenge that Ark provides. Next to that, the Discord itself contains several systems that help you in playing the game, from a complete information-hub forum containing all kinds of useful information/tips on the clustegame all the way to tribe chat synchronization to Discord and much much more! More experienced players are welcome as well, we could always use more people! =D

Please use this discord link to join!

Or you can alternatively use the code yourself: arkbbr

Here is an overview of the main features of the Beach Bob's Resort!

Map list:

• Island (Beginners) (POPULAR)
• Ragnarok (Beginners)
• Aberration
• Extinction
• Genesis 1
• Genesis 2
• Fjordur (POPULAR)
• Scorched Earth (NEW)

Server config:

• 2x taming speed.
• x10 incubation speed.
• x5 maturation speed (extra mods help boost this even more).
• 0.25x imprint timers (~2hrs).
• Custom stack sizes.
• Custom loot tables for nearly all supply drops/loot drops (including modded saddles/items).
• More info in the Discord!

Plugin system:

• Custom in-game shop with several useful items for sale (obtain points through selling tributes or voting for the cluster).
• Dino Tracker so you'll never lose your dinos.
• Shoulder pet saver when transferring servers.
• Transferrable trophies. *Cross-cluster / Discord chat system.
• Self-kick functionality for those annoying crashes.
• Cross-cluster / Discord tribe chat (and log) system.
• Custom and improved decay system.
• Several balancing options aimed at equalizing the PvE playing field.
• Automated special egg nests (wyverns, drakes etc.) & wild dino wipe commands.
• Cross-cluster tribes with easy managing/merging options.

Mods:

• S+
• No Untameables
• Kraken's Better Dinos
• Ark Additions
• Dino Storage v2
• Shiny Dinos
• CKF and CKF:SF
• Awesome Spyglass
• Best Eggs Maker
• Better waypoints
• Crafting Skill potion
• Extra QoL Items
• Additional Lighting
• Additional Emotes
• Simple Spawners (events)
• Marniimods Hairstyles
• Eco mods (trees, RP, Tek, Terrariums and Garden)
• Domination Rex (adjusted to high end gameplay)
• Phoenix Reborn (SE-unique creature)
• Couple more small necessary mods have been added, more info in the Discord!

Hope to see you wash up on our shores!

I live in an apartment with my boyfriend and one roommate. All of us work full-time, with the roommate working longer shifts and my partner doordashing for extra income, usually a couple times a week. He also makes more, so he often pays a slightly larger chunk of the bills. He also takes me to work every day and usually gives me a ride home. I do a lot of the household work. I have expressed being bothered about this towards him, and he has said as long as I ask him for help he will, and he usually has. Cooking is done equally, but I often need to remind him with help with dishes, and he doesn’t always remember to clean up messes around the living room. Roommate sometimes helps with things like cleaning and also does a fair amount of cooking. He also has ADHD and has stated he hasn’t found a different system that works for him yet, he’s tried many kinds of reminder apps. I’m glad he is willing to help, but asking him sometimes feels like a mental load on myself, and occasionally he still forgets. He still does a lot for me, so I don’t know if I’m expecting too much or if we should have another conversation.

My mom died in October of 2020. She was my rock and biggest supporter. She raised me singlehandedly. I was forced to move out and figure out the world on my own in the midst of a pandemic.
I worked full time since it happened and barely made my bills on time. I really struggle with money, and I tried to get better, but I simply wasn't making enough to enjoy anything.
Then I got into a breakup, my ex moved out, and I was left in the apartment alone with double the bills to pay. I got a roommate but mentally I'm so fucking exhausted.
I then achieved my dreams of working as professional actor for a few months. It paid enough to pay the bills, but I got home and spiraled into such a bad depression. I just can't get out of it. I tried working as an actor again but it's so unstable yet I have nothing else I want to do in life. I tried everything.
My girlfriend I have currently is moving to NYC and living out all her dreams while I struggle to get to the next day. I don't have a job, I uber full time which pays nothing. My lease ends in a month, and I have no idea where I'm going or who can help me. I'm so depressed I can't even find a place.
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I really need help. It all feels so hopeless, nothing good ever lasts.

Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship. We live about 3 hours apart so when he comes to my place for like a week he has to bring his cat. I also have a cat too and they hate each other.
Well, his cat hates mine. Mine has been around other cats for most of her life so she more or less just doesn't care, but his cat basically cowers in the bathroom the entire time.
I could stand that but the cat also refuses to use the litterbox, likely because it smells my cat. We've tried buying new litter boxes but my cat will just use that too and then we're back at the same problem.
It's getting to where I had to buy a carpet cleaner and am frequently needing to clean cat urine out of my stuff. And for anyone who's every smelt cat urine, it's not an easy smell to remove.
I'm not getting rid of my cat. She's done nothing wrong. But I would also never ask him to get rid of his cat either because I know it'd be heart breaking. So I'm not sure where to go from here.

The Beach Bob Resort is a PVE cluster focused around beginners! The cluster features a lot of both beginners and more advanced players who are all friendly and very helpful when it comes to learning more about the game. The servers feature multiple custom implemented plugins/mods to enrich the vanilla gameplay and make it more easygoing without losing the challenge that Ark provides. Next to that, the Discord itself contains several systems that help you in playing the game, from a complete information-hub forum containing all kinds of useful information/tips on the clustegame all the way to tribe chat synchronization to Discord and much much more! More experienced players are welcome as well, we could always use more people! =D

Please use this discord link to join!

Or you can alternatively use the code yourself: arkbbr

Here is an overview of the main features of the Beach Bob's Resort!

Map list:

• Island (Beginners) (POPULAR)
• Ragnarok (Beginners)
• Aberration
• Extinction
• Genesis 1
• Genesis 2
• Fjordur (POPULAR)
• Scorched Earth (NEW)

Server config:

• 2x taming speed.
• x10 incubation speed.
• x5 maturation speed (extra mods help boost this even more).
• 0.25x imprint timers (~2hrs).
• Custom stack sizes.
• Custom loot tables for nearly all supply drops/loot drops (including modded saddles/items).
• More info in the Discord!

Plugin system:

• Custom in-game shop with several useful items for sale (obtain points through selling tributes or voting for the cluster).
• Dino Tracker so you'll never lose your dinos.
• Shoulder pet saver when transferring servers.
• Transferrable trophies. *Cross-cluster / Discord chat system.
• Self-kick functionality for those annoying crashes.
• Cross-cluster / Discord tribe chat (and log) system.
• Custom and improved decay system.
• Several balancing options aimed at equalizing the PvE playing field.
• Automated special egg nests (wyverns, drakes etc.) & wild dino wipe commands.
• Cross-cluster tribes with easy managing/merging options.

Mods:

• S+
• No Untameables
• Kraken's Better Dinos
• Ark Additions
• Dino Storage v2
• Shiny Dinos
• CKF and CKF:SF
• Awesome Spyglass
• Best Eggs Maker
• Better waypoints
• Crafting Skill potion
• Extra QoL Items
• Additional Lighting
• Additional Emotes
• Simple Spawners (events)
• Marniimods Hairstyles
• Eco mods (trees, RP, Tek, Terrariums and Garden)
• Domination Rex (adjusted to high end gameplay)
• Phoenix Reborn (SE-unique creature)
• Couple more small necessary mods have been added, more info in the Discord!

Hope to see you wash up on our shores!

My SO came out to me 3months ago that they are trans masc. I'm using they because to me, she's she. She is a he but she is not going by he yet. They said they, she, her is ok. A little about me, I am straight male more right of center conservative with some bi curious tendency. I have always felt like an ally but never apart of the crowd. Please be kind I am learning all of this by trial and error. So much error. Sorry this super long, I don't not mean to if anything comes off wrong. This a huge learning curve and I'm trying really each day. I will be honest I lost it. Not in a hurtful way. I told them that I want them to be happy and I would be supportive but this isn't my lifestyle. We had an emotional fight, nothing nasty or hurtful was said. Lots of holding and crying. Lots of crying. I have been crying almost every day since. Everytime they throw out clothes, I have an anxiety attack and breakdown. They started wearing men's deodorant and here it comes again. They see me falling apart and it's another huge emotional moment.i have never felt grief like this before, it is unbearable and is all consuming. I feel horrible because I have never been emotional at all. Had lots of alcohol and anger issues. They have been holding me up and should be better. Since they told me, that very night I started reading blogs about transitioning, news articles. Good God they made the grief worse. There was nothing positive at all about FtM. Then I found this group. It has been instrumental in helping me with my grief, I'm not crying any less. I've been learning a lot about proper terminology. I asked them about what name they liked or had thought of or what they're perfer was. Still going by she like I said. We have been together for 12 years, 6 married. We have 5 kids. This was so foreign to me. I hate to say this I actually asked if they wanted a divorce because not that I was mad at them or anything. I just didn't feel like a could be the support they needed. They broke down and told me they still loved me and didn't want to change any of it but they needed to do this for them. They were so depressed leading up to this I knew something was up. We agreed not to make any huge decisions until they can get into see a doctor and find out I how they can transition. They want to go full medical transition. They have a lot of issues with medicines, so it might not be possible. I have a huge kink about breast so the thought of top surgery sent me spiraling again. She also setup an appointment for her to get her first hair cut. I did a better job this time of hiding my freak out. This past weekend was they're father's wedding. They wanted to wear a suit and it crushed me. I was hoping for one last dress. I can't help it, they looked so beautiful before.. I held it in. And I hit the bottle. Which totally gave it away. They knew something was up. So days go by, I was trying to hid my anxiety but I didn't hid the empty liquid bottles. Today was the day. She tried to question me about what was going on but I few out the door to hide like a coward. I go threw my work day was like I will get off early and I'll go hit range to relax and blow off some steam. I get home and they're home. Just got back from her first hair cut. I'm balling behind my sunglasses. Because I felt like I was going to ruin this , to me I felt like a big event. I go in, she's in the study playing piano. So I grab my gear and book. She tried to stop me to talk and again. Like a big coward, I left. She posted pictures on social media of their hair cut. I was upset but kind of crushing on it. They started messaging if I needed space and didn't want to talk, that's fine but treating them like shit and run away was , well shit. So we got to talking and honestly I do my best communicating through messaging. I don't always say the right thing the right way and lately I can't open my mouth without breaking down. I get it all out. I can't keep myself together how can I be supportive to their needs. They reassure me that I am actually doing good. They told me that they have wanted to come out since they were 15 but never felt loved or safe enough to do so. That the 12 years we have had, they have never felt more loved, supported and safe. I was on my knees. Here, I think they're holding me together. I came home. We talke more. I balled. I started playing with they're hair like I use too. It looks really sexy and I got super turned on. Really turned on. I asked them to use their masc voice. They said they had been practicing it but didn't feel ready to use it yet. They were beaming. They were so happy to be free even for a moment. I couldn't keep my hands off they're hair. I taught them how to wash a buzz cut. You have to be careful with your skin at the back because it has never seen the light of day or felt air and it is really easy to chaff and can get sore. For the first time in months, I feel really positive about going forward. I know it is a long road and there will be more painful moments but we keep talking and crying together. We get it all out. Sorry if this to long or I don't say things exactly right. I keep trying. Thank you to this page for teaching me so much.

I never thought my life would turn into a horror movie. It all started with a girl named Emma. She was beautiful, charming, and funny. We met in college and quickly fell in love. I thought I had found the one, but little did I know that my life would become a living nightmare.
Emma was possessive from the beginning. She always wanted to know where I was, who I was with, and what I was doing. At first, I thought it was just because she loved me so much. But then, things started to get worse.
She would show up unannounced at my apartment, at my job, and even at my family's house. She would call me dozens of times a day, leaving voicemails that ranged from sweet to downright terrifying. I tried to break up with her several times, but each time she would cry and beg me to take her back. I felt sorry for her and eventually gave in.
But things only got worse. Emma became jealous of any woman I talked to, even my own sister. She would accuse me of cheating on her and threaten to harm herself if I left her. I was trapped in a cycle of fear, guilt, and desperation.
One night, I came home from work to find Emma waiting for me in my apartment. She had broken in and was sitting on my couch, staring at me with a cold, dead look in her eyes. I was terrified, but tried to stay calm.
"Emma, you can't keep doing this," I said, trying to reason with her.
She just laughed and said, "I can do whatever I want. You belong to me."
That was when I knew I had to get away from her. I packed a bag and left my apartment, but Emma followed me. She followed me everywhere I went, stalking me like a predator. I couldn't escape her, no matter how hard I tried.
One night, I woke up to find her standing over me, a knife in her hand. She said she loved me and wanted us to be together forever, even if it meant killing me. I managed to fight her off and run out of the house, but I knew that she would never stop chasing me.
I went to the police, but they didn't take me seriously. They said that Emma was just a jilted lover and that I should try to work things out with her. I felt like I was alone in the world, trapped in a nightmare that would never end.
One day, I received a package in the mail. It was from Emma, and inside was a video of her torturing and killing animals. She said that if I didn't come back to her, she would do the same to me. I was sickened and terrified, but I knew I had to do something.
I finally found a sympathetic police officer who helped me get a restraining order against Emma. She was arrested and put in jail, but even then, I was afraid that she would come after me again.
Years have passed since then, but I still have nightmares about Emma. I'm always looking over my shoulder, afraid that she will come back into my life and ruin everything. I've learned to be more cautious, more wary of the people I let into my life. But I'll never forget the fear and desperation of those days when Emma was stalking me, and I'll always wonder if she's out there, waiting to strike again.

Im 19 and im turning 20 next month and I want to move out of utah where's the best place to move to ?
I'm m 19 almost m 20 and im from utah and I want to move out of utah What's the best system to move to that has better paying jobs as a minimum wage worker and I want to move to a state that doesent have bad air quality that's how I got asthma when I was in 5th or 6th grade and I want to move to a state that's cheaper for renting or having a roommate for a apartment any suggestions I'm 19 and I'm turning 20 in April and I hate utah this place is a shithole I've lived all 19 years I've been alive here and it's the worst also I live with my parents so that's another reason I want to move out because I want my own privacy etc

My girlfriend and I have been dating since July of 2023 and I moved in with her in November of 2023, her Dad passed in December.
Before all this, our life was amazing, we had great fantastic sex, she was open to intimacy and more kinder to me and we were able to enjoy life.
The only things she shared about her dad to me is that he was terrible and constantly cheated on her mom and was emotionally unavailable and not there for her and her siblings which caused her to date emotionally unavailable men and chase after them.
She said she went with me because I’m the opposite of what she dated, I’m introverted, play games and skinny, emotional and share my thoughts to communicate and not the “bad boy” in her words she has dated in the past. Which makes me angry that his passing is effecting is negatively.
Ever since her father passed in December, we’ve had a hard time. She snaps at me, does a lot less now, makes fun of me sometimes, though she’s improved in that after I told her about it and everyone in her family noticed how she’d “boss” me around or make jokes that weren’t really funny to me.
Her defense is, that’s her personality and that she’s “witty” and “sarcastic” but some of the punch lines to her jokes are either me, our relationship or us breaking up or our non-existent sex life since November of 2023.
Which I would always get butthurt about, I miss the intimacy so I would just get upset about it internally and not feel good, even now coming to April, we haven’t had sex. We hold hands, cuddle, give each other lip or cheek kisses.
Example, sometimes when we come back to our apartment she’d joke and say “It was nice meeting you, the door is that way” or “We should do this again sometime” or she has a habit of making rude jokes and saying it’s a joke. She called me Bin Ladin once because I grew out her beard and that turned into this mini fight, I don’t find that funny, I was called that in school and things like this keep adding up.
With the no sex, intimacy and other things, I wonder what happened. We started out with amazing sex life and open communication and now I feel awkward even touching her sometimes or trying to make a move. I feel uncomfortable when sex scenes or romance comes on TV.
I don’t know how much time I can give it but I just don’t feel that close to her lately.
However she is pretty amazing in other areas, she cares for me, brings me food, takes care of me when I need something, surprises me with random food and gifts among other things I love her for.
Though there’s things I am struggling with to see if I can see a future with her, especially if intimacy doesn’t improve, her personality, humor, she’s more social, positive and gets along with anyone and I’m not really that.
I don’t really know what to do, there’s too many other details to think of but hopefully I can get insight.

I found a buyer that wants to buy my house, they currently live in an apartment. But I haven't found a house yet
They want to get into a contact where if I don't find a house in the next 60 days then I'll pay them rent until I find a house.
I don't want to do this, I'm willing to get into a contact with them to sell them the house if I can find a new house for myself within the next 3 months, but if I don't then I'd rather break the contract and find a new buyer. I don't want to pay rent and I don't want the hassle of moving into an apartment until I find a new house.
Is this a contingency I can create? My real estate agent is just pushing me to sign into a contact where is I don't find a house in 2 months I'll have to start paying rent. I know these real estate agents just want to sell my house so they can get paid.

I applied for a full time days Pro Desk Sales position. I then came to this sub and read through recent posts. I really like shopping at the nearby Lowe’s. I’ve lived in this area for about three years and about 80% of the staff are still there, and appear to have been there long before I moved to this area.
I’m a bit overqualified for the job but I’m tired of manager roles and all the stress of salary positions. I just want to go to work and come home and not stress on my time off.
Should I withdrawal my app? Anyone here have experience at the pro desk or know more about this role?